Success Can’t Give You Happiness, Only GROWTH Can!

I am just sharing with you my yesterday’s preview experience. I did my best to give a most inspiring experience to every participant of the Preview. By end of the show there was a guy who came up. Interestingly he was also carrying my yesterday’s interview which appeared in Deccan Cronicle.

He was totally skeptical about the program because in the past he has attended several training programs which had not helped him any way. He was not there to join but just to see and end of it tell me Nobody can Change me! From his body language and his eyes it was very clear he was totally disgusted about self improvement programs. He was loud enough so that every one around me can hear. He said, Vidya, Say I join your program will you change me. Nothing can change me You will fail. So be straight will you Change me?.

I said, Sorry I cant change you! The saddest part is I don’t fail you are the one who fail!. He was bit stunned and toned down his voice, You cant change me? Then why should I join your program.

There is only one person who can change your life! That is YOU!! I know you have given up yourself totally. If I am harsh, I am sorry. But that is the reality. You make the choice to change. If BORN to WIN cannot change you nothing else will change you.

He decided to be part of BORN to WIN 12!
I envy him! He made the most powerful choice to be part of BTW.
The message I want to share will you all today is:

IF YOU WANT TO SEE A MIRACLE BE THE MIRACLE.

One question which almost everyone ask me is
What FIREWALK is all about?
i am sure many of you all know that onlysuccess is Totally committed to give the best to the participants and Onlysuccess is the only one which deliver FIREWALK in the whole of asia.
Most interesting Fact is this is not the highlight of the program.It is not after the entire training for 40+ hours.Participants Do it on the first day of the program itself.

what it conveys? if this is possible in life what else are possible in life.It is the Power of Mind over the body.It makes People Realize is fear is part of life and it is all about breaking the fear and moving Forward.

It was really a great day! Today morning suddenly Ronaq (Superbkids/Superbteens Graduate) along with his mom walked into my office. I saw a huge cake in their hand. His mom said Vidya, Today is Ronaq’s birthday and he decided a week back that he will first come to OnlySuccess and then only start the day. He wants to share this day with you and members of OnlySuccess. Thanks for making him a Super Achiever.

It made our day. It was a small act but reinforces that there is a great purpose in what we do. I had no choice but the thank the Super Power Nature for the greatest with which I am gifted  Helping people to take charge of their life. I have been in the past invited for several functions as a chief guest but this small act from Ronaq made me feel totally privileged.

Just came back from Malaysia after our Superbkids and Superbteens camp. I really miss those children. Amazing A coaches and Wonderful participants. Even one who coached felt that we really did a great job.

Daniel a participants from Ganesh Raja’s team gave us a wonderful greeting on behalf of the whole camp. With 94 smiles! Definitely Superbkids Superbteens has will create 94 smiling families. All the 8 of us when we are flying back to India were sure we have created 94 wonderful people in this world! It made our day!

I am sure there are times when you have spent next to the bed of your child overnight or certain times days together when they are sick. As a parent that is one of the toughest period what you should have experienced and that is one time almost every parent will do anything to avoid. Recall the time when your child is really suffering, experiencing pain, due to ill health. I am sure you should have thought, given a choice I would like to bear the pain myself and not the my little one! Am I right? I am sure your heart should have filled with lot of pain, sympathy and love.

How you express the same? Are you allowing them to do the activities which may be physically possible but tough? Or you are doing everything for them. Are you showing too much of concern than what it should be? You know what you are doing? You are extending the days of their ill health. I am sure it is a harsh fact for you!

Is it too much of a blame? But it is a fact. You want to know why: During the period of ill-health if they are doing activities which are totally not useful: like scolding the younger one very badly, may be watching TV for very long time, You serve the food where ever they are etc…How you behave? How your treat them?

Are you treating them very differently from the normal days? Though the activities are not useful, you just support them in continuing with those behaviors as they are sick?

You know the harsh reality: Sub-consciously they love to continue to be sick, because they are treated very special. What you must do:When your child is sick, make sure you treat them as normal as possible. No doubts they need more care, love and attention. But ensure they have the basic discipline.