Success Can’t Give You Happiness, Only GROWTH Can!

I am writing to you all after a while. Sure, I was blown away again by Tony - The Man.  It was amazing to spend time with Tony at Sydney. 

One of the most powerful states what I have discovered now and it makes a huge difference for me is the State of CERTAINTY! It is amazing to be in that state and it helps you to make powerful decisions.  It give you huge momentum to do the things which are difficult to do.

What CERTAINTY state means? 
It is a state when you are sure of what you are doing.

*When you are sure of the outcome -( i.e. you have visualize the outcome before it happens)
*When you are 100% confident of the direction in which you are moving
*A state where you can guide people in the right direction.  The time when people look up to you as a leader.

Several times it is true for you and me that a question pops up asking am I doing the right thing?  That question slows down the speed of your thoughts and actions.   What you need is a state of CERTAINTY to move forward. 

How to go into the state of certainty? 
Once you are sure of the outcome you shift yourself to the certainity state.  Vizualize the outcome, be sure of the direction where you are heading to.  In the upcoming BORN to WIN definitely I am going to do a session on creating the Certainty State - Be there to experiece the session.  Make even more confident decisions.

Born to win One of the participants being prepared for the fire-walk

Someone might be capable of a million steps in the right direction, but would never take them because he is too scared to take that vital first step. Yes, the first step forward is never easy, especially when you stand in front of a bed of burning charcoal!

Recently, OnlySuccess Learning Technologies organised a fire-walk for participants in its neuro-linguistic programme, Born to Win. For each participant, the fire-walk lasted a few seconds. But the preparation took many hours.

Certified NLP practioner Vidyashankar encouraged the participants to face the fire that existed in their minds. He asked them to acknowledge their fear of fire. Acceptance of something helps you deal with it in a positive manner.

He called Theresa, a participant from Malaysia, on to the stage. She had to pretend to step through fire. When she showed no sign of fear, he corrected her. You cant do that. You are not walking on a bed of flowers. The crowd clapped and cheered.

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I am just sharing with you my yesterday’s preview experience. I did my best to give a most inspiring experience to every participant of the Preview. By end of the show there was a guy who came up. Interestingly he was also carrying my yesterday’s interview which appeared in Deccan Cronicle.

He was totally skeptical about the program because in the past he has attended several training programs which had not helped him any way. He was not there to join but just to see and end of it tell me Nobody can Change me! From his body language and his eyes it was very clear he was totally disgusted about self improvement programs. He was loud enough so that every one around me can hear. He said, Vidya, Say I join your program will you change me. Nothing can change me You will fail. So be straight will you Change me?.

I said, Sorry I cant change you! The saddest part is I don’t fail you are the one who fail!. He was bit stunned and toned down his voice, You cant change me? Then why should I join your program.

There is only one person who can change your life! That is YOU!! I know you have given up yourself totally. If I am harsh, I am sorry. But that is the reality. You make the choice to change. If BORN to WIN cannot change you nothing else will change you.

He decided to be part of BORN to WIN 12!
I envy him! He made the most powerful choice to be part of BTW.
The message I want to share will you all today is:

IF YOU WANT TO SEE A MIRACLE BE THE MIRACLE.