Success Can’t Give You Happiness, Only GROWTH Can!

I feel always very gifted because I am on stage almost 200+ days in a year out of 360 days! I love training and I by the law of superpower nature I am chosen to work with the lives of people. The set of amazing 5 days that are coming up are for the next phase of BORN to WIN training ‘Influencing and Mastery’.

I love training people that is what drives me totally! Influencing and Mastery is going to
happen at Chennai, India on 21st, 22nd, 27th, 28th and 29th of July 2007. If you are
a graduate of BORN to WIN, never miss to be part of this program! I believe you are reading this article because you have a strong desire to create a higher level of growth for yourself and you are searching for more powerful tools and strategies in usefully influencing others.

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I am going to share one of the recent experiences of mine. At home I used to watch good number of videos with my daughter who is 5 years old. Some of the recent stuff what we watched together were ET, Finding Nemo, Pursuit of Happiness, Pieces of Bruce Almighty and Panchatantra katha. When we were watching one such CDs, there were good number of small animated stories and by end of it here was a moral for every story. When ever there was a moral came up immediately she will ask me to read it aloud and I was doing it. It was fun! I was feeling great because I am sure some point of time she will live these morals what she learns today as fun and will thank me for making it has part of her thoughts and life. There came a story of Hare and the Tortoise.

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I have a great message to share. I strongly believe one thing: The biggest reason for our training programs to be incredibly successful is: At OnlySuccess we practice what we preach”.

Literally I say several times every day, If I cant then I must, There are no failures only feedback, and all the success principles what we imprint in participants minds.

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What are metaphors? They are description what we use everyday to express how we feel about something. They help us to intensify certain feelings of ours. Recently when I was doing a personal coaching session with one of my clients who is a Director of Sales and Marketing for a leading MNC organization, I heard my client telling

I am totally tied up!
I asked, Tied up? By what and by whom?.
The reply was, By my work!
Can you move out of your chair right now? He was bit confused and told, Yeah! .

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I am amazed at the kind of response for my previous blog posting. Several of you said it was useful and you have learnt a lot. As committed this blog is going to go deeper into the same thought of BODY and FITNESS. What really controls your fitness or you being fat?

FITNESS is 80% Psychology and 20% Mechanics.What I have always understood is when a person is fit is more to do Psychology (mind). If you ask me what is the hierarchy in which various forces influences your fitness, here it is:

1. IDENTITY: As you read in my previous posting, the most powerful force in the human history on ones body is the way you see yourself “ your identity. Who are you? Are you describing yourself as plum, fat, big, lazy, etc.? Check if the same is useful. If not change it today. Start giving yourself a more useful identity like energetic, fast, strong etc.

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Several times people asked me what gives you so much of ENERGY?
I am on stage for over 240 days in a year training people. I definitely
need lot of energy and need to keep the body fit and flexible.

Many also have asked me the following:
How to lose weight?
I really eat less but still I am not losing weight at all!

Have you also come across people who eat a lot but still not putting up
weight? What is the reason? Is this means what we eat (type of food
and amount of food) don’t have any impact in we gaining or losing
weight? That is definitely not the truth.

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This pictures was hand drawn by a cartoonist for me! Goals change every moment of your life. You live to get what you dream of getting. That should create passion, enthusiasm and energy. There was a little girl who was 20^th of 22 children, born prematurely for a poor family in the Backwoods of Tennessee. When she was four years old, she had double pneumonia and scarlet fever, which left her paralyzed and a useless left leg. She had to wear an iron leg brace. But she was fortunate to have a mother who told her, Don’t bother, you are very bright and definitely you will achieve whatever you want despite the brace and disabled left leg. At the age of nine, she removed her leg brace, and in four years she developed a rhythmic stride which was a medical wonder and she also became a basket ball player. Then the girl got an incredible notion that she should be the world’s greatest women runner!

At the age of thirteen she entered a race and came last. From that time onwards she entered every race in high school and came last in every race. But her passion towards what she wanted in life kept her energy levels high. Gradually she improved and there came a day when she won the race. From then on she won every race she entered. She was Wilma Rudolph who later went to Tennessee State University where she met her future coach Ed Temple. Ed was surprised by her belief and trained her so well that she made it to 1960 Rome Olympic Games. She had to run against the unbeaten German girl Jutta Heine. But Wilma made it. She won both 100 meter dash and 200 meters and became the world’s greatest women runner of that time!

In the 4 x 100 meter relay it was once again Wilma against Jutta. Wilma had a poor baton pass and saw Jutta taking off down the track. But Wilma still made it and clocked her third gold in that Olympic Games and became the first American women to win three gold medals in one Olympics.

When you know what you want from life and where you are heading, there will be unlimited energy within you and you will be passionate about all your activities.

I am just sharing with you my yesterday’s preview experience. I did my best to give a most inspiring experience to every participant of the Preview. By end of the show there was a guy who came up. Interestingly he was also carrying my yesterday’s interview which appeared in Deccan Cronicle.

He was totally skeptical about the program because in the past he has attended several training programs which had not helped him any way. He was not there to join but just to see and end of it tell me Nobody can Change me! From his body language and his eyes it was very clear he was totally disgusted about self improvement programs. He was loud enough so that every one around me can hear. He said, Vidya, Say I join your program will you change me. Nothing can change me You will fail. So be straight will you Change me?.

I said, Sorry I cant change you! The saddest part is I don’t fail you are the one who fail!. He was bit stunned and toned down his voice, You cant change me? Then why should I join your program.

There is only one person who can change your life! That is YOU!! I know you have given up yourself totally. If I am harsh, I am sorry. But that is the reality. You make the choice to change. If BORN to WIN cannot change you nothing else will change you.

He decided to be part of BORN to WIN 12!
I envy him! He made the most powerful choice to be part of BTW.
The message I want to share will you all today is:

IF YOU WANT TO SEE A MIRACLE BE THE MIRACLE.

It was really a great day! Today morning suddenly Ronaq (Superbkids/Superbteens Graduate) along with his mom walked into my office. I saw a huge cake in their hand. His mom said Vidya, Today is Ronaq’s birthday and he decided a week back that he will first come to OnlySuccess and then only start the day. He wants to share this day with you and members of OnlySuccess. Thanks for making him a Super Achiever.

It made our day. It was a small act but reinforces that there is a great purpose in what we do. I had no choice but the thank the Super Power Nature for the greatest with which I am gifted  Helping people to take charge of their life. I have been in the past invited for several functions as a chief guest but this small act from Ronaq made me feel totally privileged.

Just came back from Malaysia after our Superbkids and Superbteens camp. I really miss those children. Amazing A coaches and Wonderful participants. Even one who coached felt that we really did a great job.

Daniel a participants from Ganesh Raja’s team gave us a wonderful greeting on behalf of the whole camp. With 94 smiles! Definitely Superbkids Superbteens has will create 94 smiling families. All the 8 of us when we are flying back to India were sure we have created 94 wonderful people in this world! It made our day!