Success Can’t Give You Happiness, Only GROWTH Can!

As I am writing this, I am also doing my last but one children camp in INDIA!  Yesterday was the  “Transformation Day” and it was a great experience.  I just spent the whole day with wonderful set of children.   May be i should have done several hundreds of ‘Total Truth Process’ to thousands and definitely what we had yesterday was a unique experience.  People who have coaches before  should know what I am talking about.  Every child is unique and every experience does not have any parallel.

Today is the last day, the ‘Inspiration Day’.  What we do today?  Children step out to create their exam goal posters and their life plan.  Through this process they join the 3% of the people in the world who have structured their goals, who have a written plan for their life.  What difference this can make in their life?  Incredible difference!  Some you should be knowing what happened in the Yale University?

The Yale University Story:матраци

In the year 1953, in Yale University there was a survey done with the outgoing graduates. All the outgoing students have been asked the question:  What is it you want to do in your life? Out of all the students almost 97% of them said “I dont know” and the remaining 3% have created their life plan and they were very clear what they wanted in life.

20 years later the study continued to find out what those students do in their life.  They checked various factors and one of the factors what they were checking is ‘how much wealth’ those students have created in their life!   The 3% of students created three times more wealth than the remaining 97% of the students. Though it sounds only like 3 times actually it is more.  Assume the 97% together made 100 million $ and 3% made 300 million, in reality, the 100 million is shared by 97% of people and 300 million is shared by just 3% of people.  They were greatly successful in life.

Why?  Not because they got a better education or they are more lucky, just because they structured their goals in their life.  This story is what motivates me every time when I step in to share the strategies of creating their  goals!  Shortly I am going to be on stage to share with them the life changing strategies for  creating their GOALS and LIFE PLANS.

Today when I look back all the camps what we did in India for children, I just cant believe the path what I travelled.  It is hard to believe.  I never even in my dream thought I can train children or thought of doing it when we started training.  I thought that is the toughest task in the world!  I was greatly scared for the first time.  You what to know what more happened during our first camp?  Third day morning of the first camp was ‘Tsunami’  and I cant never forget that day.  4th day morning there was a rumor that one of the biggest political leader has passed away and the entire city was upside down.  There were lot of phone calls from parents are you going to postpone the camp? Can it not be done later?  etc.  We need to hold on and say, ‘Camp Will Happen!’  send your child please.

From there:
Today SK/ST camps are moments of joy, inspiration and happiness!  I love kids like crazy! I love every child who walk into the training hall!  Every camp has hundreds of miraculous moment! Children and parents belonging to 40 different nationalities go through the program and  we get this wonderful opportunity to empower more and more kids!

Though I know for life time I cant disassociate myself from training those angels,  when I decided to step of out doing Children camps in India, what is the emotion I am  going through right now?  Is it a Moment of

Joy?
Happiness?
Sadness?
Sorrow?
Incredible mix of emotions?

I know you will vote for the last choice – INCREDIBE MIX OF EMOTIONS.  Superbkids/Superbteens is one of my brain child, one program which made me understand how capable I am!, One Program which told me ‘Life Will Never Be the Same’.
Why this is the last camp for me in India?

You all know my fear!  How many more lives I will be able to empower in my life span? How many more people are there in this world who MUST experience OnlySuccess Training Program?  The gap is so high and it can no way come closer!

That is when I decided if I decide to do all by myself, I can train only little people, may be 15000-20000 in a year.  Always people come up to ask me ‘Vidya, why don’t you do this program in city or Town or village.  You name a city or town, there are people always wanted me to do this program. How to do it?  That too how to reach every part of our huge country?

We all know one thing:   “Anything is Possible, It is the question of right strategy!”

TRAIN AS MANY TRAINERS WHO CAN GIVE THE EXPERIENCE WHAT ME AND PRAVEEN CAN & CREATE AS MANY CENTERS AS POSSIBLE ALL CROSS THE COUNTRY!

So me training in India for the last the time is the first initiative.  It is a tough emotional decision but you all know once we control or conquer our emotions then only we experience GROWTH!

Me stepping out of training children in India also means, we have a strategy not to reach unlimited number of children in this Country who really deserve to be a CHAMPION in their life.

I am sure you know right now camps are going on back to back for children.  In addition to what ever camps that got over in India there are four more camps coming up in UAE - Dubai, Sharjah and Abu Dhabi.  Obviously I love this period a lot. 

Lots of training, lots of coaching, and lots of fun.  More than all it is a great feeling of supporting the children to change their lives for ever.  Once common question I always hear from coaches is ‘Why Coaching is Addictive?’ 

Addictive means anything which you cannot stop easily.  Anything that you gives you a great feeling when you do, when you get indulged. Anything that you want to do it again and again, where heart takes over the mind.

I have always found two kinds of addictions:
1. Negative addictions - They are the ones that destroys us internally and physically in the long run.   Smoking, drinking, uncontrollable time spent on TV / internet, excessive sleeping etc

2. ???????? ????? ????????Positive addictions - They allow us to grow stronger emotionally and show our inner strengths.  Coaching is one among those positive addictions.

What creates the addictions in the coaching:  Anything that gives you an emotional ‘high’ always turns out to be an addictive behaviour.  When you are a coach to somebody you become a roll model for others.  People look up to you as a person whom they can trust, whom they can model and whom they can admire.  These factors push you to see yourself differently.  It helps you to easily come out of some of your lousy patters which you wanted to step out for years together. 

Like any new behaviour to set in for the first time always there is a resistance.  That is the reason I even see people come back to coach after one or even 2 years from the time they finish the Born to Win program.  But the interesting part is once they come in they realise that it is addictive.  They keep coming back for coaching.  It give an emotional ‘high’.  It makes you more disciplined.  It shows a new you.  It pushes your identity to the next better level.  It makes you grow internally. It creates the opportunity to make a difference in others life which for many of the coaches what I have seen is a first time experience.

I love positive addictions.  In fact that makes you grow faster.  Keep increasing your list of positive addictions and grow stronger internally.  Keep coaching….Say I love Coaching.

I am greatful to the Super Power Nature for giving the resources to OnlySuccess Foundation for funding the education of good number of underprevilaged children.  These set of children who will be funded for thier upcoming year education are the ones who struggle to meet their requirement to pay their fees in their schools/colleges.  Some of them have only one parent and some of them without this support may withdraw the schooling though the parents really want them to continue. 

 There are several of you who have contributed to the OnlySuccess Foundation Fund which goes for this cause - PROVIDING EDUCATION TO THE NEEDY.  At this moment I request everyone who read this post to participate in the event and extend your greatest support for the event.  As you know your feelings go a long way.  Let us give our love and support to those wonderful set of children who will be benefited from this event.  Let us make the world a better place to live!

Date: 3rd May, Saturday, 6 pm
Venue:  OnlySuccess Learning Technologies, Sathya Plaza, 7, Dr.Thirumoorthy Nagar Main Road, Nungambakkam, Chennai-34, India.

All donations to OnlySuccess Foundation is tax excempted under Sec 80G of the Income Tax Act for the Indian Donor. 

It was a mind blowing experience!  Today morning I am sure you all are aware about the Awareness Walk from OnlySuccess Foundation at the Marina Beach - “Connecting with the Children of God”.  It is for a great cause.  The walk was to bring in the awareness to more and more people that they can play a meaningful role in providing the education for the under privileged children.

Right from yesterday night there were calls coming in at OnlySuccess, primarily Parents of Superbkids/Superbteens Graduates checking if the even is going to happen as there were predictions for rain and it was also raining.  BORN to WIN graduates know Rain Cant Stop this great walk!

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It is great to share with you all the camps what we did in Malaysia and UAE(Dubai and Abudhabi).    Total of about 300 children attended the program and no doubts it was an amazing experience. 

I have no words to express my gratitude to the law of Super Power Nature gifting me to touch the lifes of those kids.  Definitely everyone who steped in as coaches made an amazing impact on the show.  (Kavitha, Raja, Damodhar, Narendran, Baskaran, Madhan, Syed).    Keep up the passion coaches.